M I D -W E E K

Heey, heey!
It's a middle of the week..I'm in my hometown and it's not sunny as it should be, it's more likely that it'll start raining. Shhh.shiii*!
 I ate my breakfast ( pancakes + apple, thank you sis!:) ) and decided to write before I start studying.
 1 st June, a month of the finals, "last chances" to lose kilos, plans fot the summer, summer jobs and of course adventures and for someone trips. I'm really interested how you are planing to spend ur summer? :)
New month,new day, come on and wake up! It's not late, start doing. I'm goin'   ------> 🍵🌺📝🍍
Bisous

I LOVE THE SMELL OF POSSIBILITY IN THE MORNING

Exactly! Straight to the point.
Hello guys!:) 21 st of May and it's Saturday. I'm still in my bed,wrapped in blanket with coffee in one hand and lap-top in another. Last days were crazy,buut i luuv it. Somehow very quickly without having time to notice things just changed. Well, it takes time for everythings so as for this too. The start point is our mind/way of thinking. I know that I changed ..I'm more honest to myself, I don't have time for people who are negative or are just trying to pull me down..no,no..I'm more focused to actually do somethig,change and fight to achieve my goals. When it's about our plans, man be quiet that's the key. Work and let the success be your noise..is definitely something that I practic now.
People are likely to be "happy" or curious about your story/experience if it was negative. When it's something actually good for you, they reaction is more like ...oh,not so excited? If it's not happiness and if you can smell jealousnesss ..leave,you don't need that! There's nothing more beautiful for me that the human happiness for another human being without having any expectations or thoughts how to use it for yourself.  In the past,when I said someone about smth that was important to me, after their reaction instead of being in mood for celebration I usually felt quilty..how is that possible?Well,well.. then they are starting talking how he/she can't do thaat ..hmm,maybe that could be their future plan? Honestly I hate that part, heeey man we are all different you have to find your way not just to copy NO-METTER-WHO just because they succeed.I totally forgot what was the point of this post..almost. Guys, don't let the others pulls you down or make you feeling like it's nothing. Go,work hard,be ambitious ,you are going to achieve it! The results will give you fuel to continue "the battle". H-A-K-U-N-A  M-A-T-A-T-A BEJBzZzZ ! Luuuv ya!
Lots of love❤

Overthinkinggggg (NEIN) !

Sunday night.My favorite tea,pause of studying and me laying on the couch covered by my super cozy blanket. Again,I decided to write on the blog.For a long time I'm questioning my self what exactly I want to do in life,am I on the right way..these and similar questions had bring me a lot of skepticism and fear sometimes,actually very often.Since I'm the kind of person who always loved to plan everything,when something didn't turn out in the way i expected or wanted..well,hm..I really had big problems.In that moments I felt like I betrayed myself and my family(But these plans were always my ideas,my wishes..the big irony is that no one from my family ever expect something or have force me to do smth ).Firstly I put a lot of pressure on my self,setting very often  not so realistic ideas.Overthinking definitely ruins our daily routine,joy,and then we r not able to appreciate moments that we didn't expect to happen.However ,this problem is connected with our comfort zone,anxiety.Fear of not knowing what is going to happen,fear of not knowing what to do since you didn't expect it to happen and etc.When we become aware that we have a problem,it's a first step but very important!Then we are ready to try and to do our best to change it.Hobbies are very important for us,some activity,writing,dancing,singing,running..whatever,the only thing important is that we love it and that through that action we are feeling satisfied,happy and naturally by doing it we reject stress,negativity and we embrace positivity. Like in many posts I have said before,the choice is ours,and it's on us what we are going to choose.I choose positivity,kindness,beauty and all the things that are coming with this.Being surrounded with right people is of big importance.If you feel uncomfortable with someone or that person is bringing the worst from you?Get rid of it,life is too short to be surrounded with people we don't like.It's ok to not be friend with everyone,cause we all know the old quote "Everyone's friend is no one's friend".By this ,I don't mean that who is not my friend ,he is my enemy.I wanted to say it is important to treat other people in right way,it's your reflection..and if someone treats you in the way you don't like,don't be like that person.Be better than that.In many situations in life,we are going to be in taught situations but with positive attitude it's easier.It takes time,like everything else but it's worth it.Do more,be more,be happy..
Lots of love and positivity!
Xoxo

Dose of ..

Hello,hello!:)
It's Saturday and it's sunny.Nice weather ,but since I have to study for the rest of my exams I decided to stay in my apartment and to focus on priorities.After I got back from Serbia I really felt kinda reborn, haha.That was really what I needed,and this trip reminds me that is really important to make time and to organize well to do things that are good for our soul.Traveling,time with my friends and mulled wine are totally on my list.Life is short,and this doesn't mean that we don't have to do our best and that we should settle for less.Sometimes we get so caught up in our daily lives that we forget to take the time out to enjoy the beauty in life. Do what makes you happy,learn,make mistakes,teach,love,be confused,help others..and you'll grow ,you'll be happy.It's all about the journey,the way we fight our battles,the way we find solutions.Be brave,have heart,stay focused and ambitious.Be yourself and don't let anyone change you or manipulate your plans/ideas.
Lots of love!

Confession

It's Friday. From Monday the madness of exams can start.Guess what I'm doing? Everything, but studying...I'm in my hometown, and it's really nice to see my family and to be with them. I spend these days really nice,I spend the most of my time with my bf and it consists our tradional dog walks.All of this would be okay, if I did what I had too.But the truth is,I didn't planned my time, I kinda tried to avoid my obligations, and  where I am?However, I'm totally sure that all this is not going to somehow be in my head before I sit and get my things together and start doing something about it.After writing this I feel somehow better,is it stupid?! My dad made me a breakfast (eggs,tuna,cheese, tost & coffee), aww there's really something about this and similar things that shows you that peoole aroud you care.Sometimes I think that I don't deserve all of this..I don't know what's going on with me, I guess some crazy period and it's not PMS.(haha)
Conclusion is when you study you get:
• good grades /results (and knowledge of course)and naturally then you are
• happy,confident and then everything is easier,you are ready to face new challenges.
 I decided what I want so I'm going to work on it! What about you?Do you have some special technics/motivational ideas that you can share? Please, feel free to comment !I would appreciate it. Wishing you plenty of time full of happiness and productivity!
Xoxo

To be or not to be (Selfishness)

Guten Morgen ,guten morgen! This morning I woke up earlier than I usually do, so while drinking coffee I thought that writing a post could be a good idea. Beside that ,I' m also feeling fresh and motivated after super lazy weekend which I spent alone (During this weekend the idea was  that studying should be only in my mind, but I was in mood for anything but not studying.Some really 'important-life questions' were on my mind).So, after relaxing weekend ,I'm ready for some obligations and real life, haha.During this weekend, as I said I was alone in my apartment, cause my roommate was in her hometown.From time to time ,it's really nice and overwhelming when you can be alone with your thoughts, far away from everydays obligations or people. Maybe it sounds strange, but I think everyone of us need that, from time to time.This made me to think about waiting for things to happen and selfishness.Maybe you think what selfishness has to do with waiting, but trust me.. A lot.How many time you didn't succeed just because you didn't do your best, because you were thinking and hopping that your mother/bf/bae will help or finish something for you? If the answer is never, well be proud of yourself. I really had the problem with that for a long time, even now sometimes I 'm facing with that again.When you are a selfish person you don't love yourself and with that fact you can't love anyone else. You only see what you can get from people, or the way you can use them.But like in the all things in life,the key is YOU!! When you realize what you are doing and that you want to change, you r going to do that.The best way to get to know someone is through their actions, through the way they treat the other people.Selfish person is not a happy person, nor the person who love themselves,only negative feelings are attached to this kind of person.It's so much better not to be that person anymore, you see everything better, and it' s even funny to me sometimes how I used to think that I'm the most important person in the world and if things didn't happend in the way I expected it's the end of the world. During the puberty I have that phase called selfishness .I'm happy that I'm over it, cause that caused me a lot of sadness and hard times. Why all that negativity when you can be happy and positive, you were born to live, to struggle, to fight, to have your own battles and of course there's a lot of hard times  in life …but isn't it better to spend in positivity ?My opinion is that positivity is the way of life, that's something you choose. It's not always easy, just as everything else, you have to motivate yourself and to decide what you want. Work on yourself, cause you are all what you got. If you are successful in accomplishing your goals you are going to be happy! You are going to accomplish them by hard work and not by sitting in the chair and waiting for a miracle.  They say that Mondays are good to start things,well I think that everyday is chance for a new beginning.It always been and will always be about how bad you want it !
P.S.
Don't be passive. Don't be a sheep. Learn to enjoy the little things.Until next time!
Kisses 😘

Be the change you want to see

 

The biggest problem about changes in life and growing(as a person) is people's laziness and if you ask me one of the worst quality you can have is to be passive in life.Waiting things to happen,or waiting for someone else to finish something for you.. and not doing anything about it ...
    It's stupid, 'maybe' selfish..don't you think so?;) And in the end not good for you at all.
    Everything have the end so that way of living too.Don't wait        for help of your friend/classmate to help you about your homework for example and don't blame them if you don't finish your obligations on time, cause it's up to you!It was always easier to blame someone else, because of course it's always someone else fault not yours, huh? It takes courage but it's good for you, start thinking about that,to take things in your hands. Everything you do will affect your life, so think about that.Every work pays off, you just need to be stubborn, patient and organized to finish things on time. Daily routine is very important. If you have a goal, you want to achieve it? Of course that the answer is YES! So concentrate about that! Surround yourself with positive and people who love you and push you to do things, and you should do the same for them. Stop making excuses and start doing real things!I decided to start writing posts like this, cause i feel like I should. I myself love to read these kind of posts, so why not ?It could be helpful for someone ,if anyone read this ..haha.

However, if anyone had read this from the beginning to the end, thanks! I hope that you don't found it stupid, feel free to comment!Lot's of love and enjoy the Monday madness😂❤